Slack + Lazy + Rude + Lame

Brandon is totally out of control! I have warned him since last week about his behaviour, his attitude, his forgetfulness and his rudeness. He seem to turn me a deaf ear and never heed my countless warnings. I caned him earlier for more than 3 times. I checked his homework, his handwriting was so untidy and all the answers that he written were mostly WRONG! He didn't bother to double-check and not only that, tomorrow he's having his CH and EN spellings and he has not learn any of them! Arghh!!! I told him I will check on him every day and he better ensure his school bag is neatly packed. I do not wish to see any rubbish or more than 3 storybooks inside cos it's too heavy for him to carry to school. His final year exams is just round the corner and his form teacher already gave him the exact details what he will be tested on. Yet he dun seem to bother... I been seeing him watching his cartoons series and movies every night... lying on the sofa... reading his comics or storybooks/magazines... playing with his toys... I reminded him again and again to do more assessment and revise his past worksheets/textbooks... I'm just talking to the walls cos he show no reaction! That really gets on my nerves tonight!!! If possible, I try my best not to use cane on him cos I don't like to punish him in this manner and I think he's old enough to know what he suppose to do. I gave him my reason why I allowed him to study at his own pace so that he don't feel restricted and I trust him to behave himself. Again, he has proven me wrong! He screamed at my mum again for not able to find his spelling list where that piece of paper was inside his school bag! I don't wish to see my mum get more stress over his matter. I have to teach him a lesson to be more mindful with language and speak to everyone politely. His temper is getting worse and if I don't keep him under control now, he will definitely get more aggressive with those that he can bully! Lately, he also been taking my mum for granted. *sigh... so, if I don't him how serious I am right now, he will get worse each day! Teaching a kid to be obedient.. to be good takes lot Patience... it's not easy task especially when they learn more things, they will argue back with you all kinds of reasons! Finally I'm done with his spellings and school work... I'm so shag and tired.....

a lazy weekend....

Yesterday is Hari Raya Pusa... it's Sri's holiday.... we gave her an ang-pow for this happy occasion! We went back on Saturday morning to pray to my FIL, and have a good lunch together. At night, while his Daddy was out with his frens, we ordered Pizza Hut.. Yummy! It's been so long since I had pizza.. and my favourite spicy drumlets.. miss the food again! ^o^ We brought MIL and Sri to the West Coast Mall - Sushi Tei for a wonderful lunch... these were the food that I ordered for them... both enjoyed the food so much and look so happy.. thereafter, we went shopping for while then back home.

Baby's temper getting worse and worse lately. He easily get frustrated and agitated whenever things doesn't go the way that he wants it to be. I also find him with this bad habit of pushing the blame to my mum whenever he forgets his stuffs! hmm! I warned that if i found out that he is rude and command my mum to do anything for him again, I shall confiscate all his fav toys and no more pressie for him even if he did well for his exams. One thing, I must emphasis to him is he's very fortunate that he has so many things which many kids out there do not owe them. We encourage him by rewarding those gadgets that he wish for when he did well for his studies... but, if I find him badly misbehave,. I will not allow such gifts to be given to him anymore!

Hopefully, he will learn his lessons and buck up his school work as I find him getting more and more slack this month... final year exam is approaching... yet I c him relax @ home.. watching TV... reading his comics... playing his Penguin games... or log into his Facebook... OMG! He's only 8yrs old.. Primary 2.. but I have to worry about his future like he is in secondary school... *sigh...

Baby had a good swim!

Today Brandon had his swim @ Clementi Swimming Complex...this is his first time coming here and he was excited and happy when we arrived. I suppose to swim together with him but I am not feeling well. I know I'm so evil cos I actually tried to discourage him from swimming earlier cos the weather was quite bad. It was drizzling when we reached. I told him a ghost story just to scare him off but I am surprised he's not afraid... Hmm! So, I followed him in and watched him swimming from one end to the other end. I didn't he can enjoy himself so much even he's alone by himself.... *hee... after the swim, he was so tired that he fell asleep in the car before we reached home. It was fun and memorable day for him... he miss his swimming lessons.** I promised him that I will enroll him for his lessons again next year.