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My dear Brandon went haywired again tonight! Remembered the schedules that I set for him, he totally forgotten about it when I'm not around for one day. After my dinner at mum's place, she showed me his untidy writings on his Chinese worksheet. He leave a few qns blank and he anyhow strike off the wrong answers and wrote above it. It was so messy and he got the cheek to push the blame to my mum for not putting inside his school bag this afternoon when he goes to school. I cannot stand the way his attitude towards to mum, Sri and anyone who talks to him. Sometimes, including me, he will always have excuses to cover his mistakes. After my countless warnings, he never heed so he gets a beating from me. I erased the whole worksheet and asked him re-do.
After a tiring day at work, I only wish for a peaceful night to rest and sleep early. But, his behaviour and attitude towards his school work badly disturbed me. I am really concerned and I do not wish he turn worse. I went thru the whole worksheet and got an exercise book for him to practise his Chinese writing. I know I shouldn't but I threatened him that if he continue with such behaviour, I will send him to Clementi and stay with his Nai-Nai. Since he take my mum for granted and always bully Angel, I need to show him that I am absolutely serious about this matter and I want him to learn his mistakes.
Although he is naughty and stubborn, but he is not exactly a bad boy overall. He was very sweet cos I saw his effort for giving me a birthday surprise! He cut the colored papers and wrote 'Happy Birthday' and stick them all over the walls of kitchen. It was lovely and I am very touched by his act. espcially when he sand the birthday song to me by himself... he asked his Daddy to order a chocolate cake from awfully chocolate... Although it's not my favourite but I sincerely appreciate all that he has done for me. Brandon means alot to me! I am so happy and feel a lill guilty after the beating. *sigh* I wish he will understand the meaning of his punishment and put in the same effort to his schoolwork too! Arghhh... kids are a hell of monsters... OMG
Well done! After I seek some advice from Vanes, she taught me to draft a schedule for Brandon.. so that he will learn to re-organise himself in his studies and lifestyle... it takes alot of time and patience... although he will still bargain with me for longer TV time or Arts & Crafts time.. I will not give in him each time he request but at times when he really behaves himself.. more like a reward to him for doing a great job! i must learn to bring myself down to his level in order to understand how he feels.. sometimes, its easy to say than to be done.. I simply cannot control my temper when he test my patience a few time in a row for 2 hrs... I will get frustrated and shouted at him for not understanding..
I'm happy today the 1st Mon of the timetable I gave him last night, he did his best to follow accordingly... I'm really glad at least now, he will look at the clock and manage his time nicely for each activity that I have planned for him... I'm trying my best to go through his schoolwork as much as possible..
I lubb u Baby... let's learn together and work hard together k?!
Nowadays Brandon slack more and more each day. I behave exactly like those kiasu parents who keep nagging and reminding him to revise his schoolwork... do more assessments... and to pay more attention in class. *sigh... i do not know what has happened to him but his performance has turn from bad to worse. He is expertise in his arts and crafts but this is not the moment for him to relax... cutting papers and doing those lill things that he learned from the library books. In fact, I hate to scold him and punish him so often.
Conclusion- no matter how much he learned from his childcare... all will be forgotten when he starts primary school!
